When is started this blog I told myself I would write at least once a week. Yeah….so I haven’t done very well at accomplishing that goal. There was a time when I seemed to always feel motivated to write. So I did. And then it was suggested that I start a blog to post these writings. So I did. And then I sat there staring at my computer screen with no idea of what to write. Spiritual insights? Politics? Current events? Single mommy-dom? The fact that I now have a blog but I have nothing in my brain to write about? So, today I decided I would just write. Congratulations to whomever is lucky enough to be reading my totally random blog today. Good luck! (P.S….the following will be completely unedited, so please excuse all grammatical or structural errors that might occur….Yes, Mom, that means you.)
The world is crazy. I can’t even watch the news anymore (Those who really know me, know what a big deal that is!) because it seems all logic has been thrown out the window. And, yet, I feel this deep driving passion for this country and its founding principles that pushes me to speak out. I see people all around me losing their way because they have thrown out all that they knew to be true simply because it was too hard or didn’t make sense with their limited mortal understanding of things. I hear constant justifications or excuses for bad behaviors. I watch people struggling, trying to figure out why “such-and-such” happened. I see a generation of “me me me” coming up in the world. I see all my weaknesses manifested in my children and worry if I can afford to pay for all of the therapy they will clearly need to make up for my failings as their mother. (Sorry kiddos!) I live in an eternal groundhog day with my kids, repeating the same speeches over and over again, all the while wondering why I even bother because it is clear from the glazed look in their eyes they checked out a while ago. My youngest is 7 and I am still having to make sure she poops everyday and she gets her medicine so I don’t have to take her back to Primary Children’s and put her through that horrible treatment again. My autistic daughter…well, she is a walking string of concerns and questions. I pray for guidance and seem to be left with “you’ll figure it out” as the answer, and yet, I wonder if anything I’ve done really qualifies as “figuring it out”.
Basically, I feel surrounded by chaos and questions. Yet, in the middle of it all, I feel a sense of peace. I know that sounds crazy. Somehow, even while walking in complete darkness at times, I know it will all work out. It was almost 8 years ago that my husband passed away. I wasn’t sure I could pull this cart on my own. I didn’t think I was strong enough. I was wrong. Yes, it took me a while to build up the strength. I had to take a lot of rest breaks early on. I cried. I collapsed from shear exhaustion. I had moments when I felt I couldn’t go on. Yet, here I am almost 8 years later. I’m are all still standing (and, more importantly, so are my kids). My hands are calloused, my muscles are stronger, I have figured out what I can and can’t carry and realized an easier way to hold on to that cart. And, most importantly, I know how important it is to stay on the path. As hard as it might be at times, I make sure we read our scriptures and pray as a family, we have family night every week (sometimes it only lasts about 10 minutes, but at least we do it), we attend our church meetings, I go to the temple as much as I can and I try to act on every prompting I receive (whether or not I’m sure it was a prompting or just my own crazy brain at work). I do this because I know I need the Lord’s help and I need to be able to say to Him, “I’ve done all that I can. I need You to make up for what I can’t.” And trust me, there’s A LOT I can’t do!
Even though I’m surrounded by crazy, chaos and questions, I say to myself “Be still and know that I am God.” “Doubt your doubts before you doubt your faith.” Sometimes life just is what it is. You can quit, you can cry or you can keep on keeping on. I choose the latter. And, I’m going to keep on laughing at life the whole way through. (Someday my kids will realize how freaking hilarious I really am!)